
It hurts The Apiary to see a hateful phrase like "The N-word." You can imagine how uncomfortable we feel saying "Un burrito con frijoles negros, por favor" to the China-man behind the counter of the Mexican taco stand down the street. And talking about Melrose Place superstar Daphne Zuniga without looking around first--forget it.
So it goes without saying that adjectives like "shock" and "outrage" were some of the first to come to mind upon reading at the last Friday. Mayer's performance was jeered as "the most awkward, offensive, unfunny 15 minute comedy act" Blogger Jason Pinter , has ever seen. Pinter has obviously never bared witness to Patrick Duffy in any given episode of Step By Step .
Hold the porkchops though. Sherrod Small , a comedian who was working The Comedy Cellar that night, rushed to defend John Mayer's act and said, "Everybody loved [his use of the N-word].”
What wildly subjective account do YOU most want to agree with? Wait. Who are all these people who go to the Comedy Cellar? Wait. Is John Mayer racist or not, because we have no problems alerting the black community about this. Wait. Has anyone seen yet? That show is fun. Wait. Uh...
Reader Comments (26)
If Sherrod Small is right, then he can try comedy.
Either way, he shouldn't play music.
[b]That is one of the most biased and idiotic statements I've read today. Get a clue, imbicile.Not EVERY black person uses that word especially not in every other word of every sentence. I suppose this is true for Barack Obama and Oprah as well, right?Black people have tried to take control of the word by twisting it and thus nulling it but make no mistake, the hatred and ugliness that it spawned from is definitely not of African origin. An oppressed people in a STOLEN nation have the right to try and combat the hatefulness bestowed upon them by the children of their oppressors.John may think its "cute" but if someone casually threw around "ovendweller" when referring to Jews or "Spicks" when referring to Hispanics, all hell would break loose but a word with such an ugly history can NOT be dismissed as "okay" in the U.S., especially when being used by the children of the criminals who created it.If you or Mr. Mayer for that matter, feel so comfortable using the "n" word by all means walk through the middle of Watts or Compton or Little Rock, Arkansas screaming it out loud and see welcome you'll feel. Imagine telling the ambulance driver "I don't understand why they did this to me; all I did was call them "n****rs"[/b]
What did you expect from someone going out with one of the most attractive though most stupid people on this planet??? He writes fantastic music, but acts like an idiot. Full stop.
It's such bullshit when people say that nigger means an ignorant person. It doesn't. Do a brief search on the etymology and origins of the word. I understand that people say that in order to take away the power and the sting of the word, but it's just not true. It's an ugly and offensive word that says more about the ignorance of those who created it than those it supposedly describes. It is not a generic term for any "ignorant person". Look it up.
Nah, I've had friends for years who I think are racist. Why? Because despite how cordial we are to each other, every once in a while they say/do something that makes it 100% clear that they look down on me because of the colour of my skin.
Make no mistake you can play guitar with a black man, appreciate his skill as a musician, crack some jokes and still have deep seated racial issues. Sounds like John just said what he meant and is regretful now that he's rocked the boat.
if blacks what the word to stop being used they must stop using it themselves. until then calling out john mayer for using it is the height of hypocrisy. and no "nigga" is not any different than "nigger"
As a professional stand-up comic, I am offended that John Mayer gets referred to as a "comedian". The only reason people let him get on stage is because he's famous. If he wasn't, he would be an open-micer at best. Which is actually what he is. It's strange, the other big "N-word" incident occurred with another non-stand-up comedian posing as one, Michael Richards. Hopefully this incident of his will make him go away as well.
John Mayer is a racist pig...........IMe and my crowd will never purchase his music again.
Who cares if he would sleep with a black woman.. I'm sure they don't. His pecker is probably 2 inches and he has withered balls.
That was no joke and he should be ashamed of himself
WOW A WHITE GUY UTTERED THE WORD 'NIGGER'? MUST BE RACIST
What he was trying to say was that if he truly had a 'hood pass' it would make him on par with the people IN the hood (aka, black people) and he'd be allowed to say the n-word, thus being able to call it a 'nigger pass'.
The problem isn't that he said it, the problem is that the word is this shameful, taboo thing shrouded in utter secrecy to mainstream America. In fact when we read this one book in 10th grade we weren't even allowed to SAY it aloud. Does anyone else see how fcking ridiculous that is? Like uttering it aloud is so repugnant it will make the ceiling cave in or something
It's like when a non-black person says it they instantly morph into a deep south southern slave owner straight from Roots or some shit, no matter what context it is used in. Even if they're trying to say "hey i think calling black people NIGGERS is really outdated and wrong"
tl;dr we need to address the taboo surrounding the word instead of chastising him.
And you can be 100% not racist and date within your own race. Maybe he's not attracted to black women. So what? You can't help what you're attracted to. Maybe the cultural difference between him and the black women he's met have been too vast. Who knows? It's his choice who he sleeps with. If he said he didn't like redheads or tall women or girls with piercings no one would have cared.
I'm tired of all the racial shit, we are all human just different skin tones. How come its ok to squint your eyes and say look im Chinese but its not ok to make you nose look big and say I'm black. I'm just saying this because the other day in a Chinese fast food place a black guys kids where squint there eyes and going hong chong hong chong and when the Chinese guy treated him rude he made a scene and was like o because im black you can treat me like shit. Im sorry just because your black dosent mean you can make fun of other races, that makes you a raciest your self. Im just sick of blacks making fun of other rases and getting pissed when they get it back. I went to a all black high school and got missed with on all the time for being white and when blacks called me names and other white kids name like honkey and snowflake no black teacher said nothing but when a white kid called a black kid a N*ger all hell broke lose. Just about every race has been in slaved at some point in history its happened to everyone so get over it. Just look at what happened to the Native Americans and they bitch less then any race. If you make fun of any race your a racist. So if you make fun of Blacks,Whites,Mexicans Italians your a racist. So its not ok to be like look at those mexicans and laugh and think your not a racist because you dont use the n word you just made fun of a race jack ass. That makes you a racist. its not just only when you make fun of blacks.
Some of the comments here are to too ludicris,FYI people the "N" word was not brought with the blacks when they were enslaved here,it was our "White" ancestors that bestowed that ugy term on them and aye some blacks do use the word but among themselves and tis they'er choice,I know if I was black and it was aimed at me by a non-black person I would be offended,my daughter is 1/2 Japanese and when someone uses the "JAP" trust me I'm getting anal and will light into ye arse,tis a vile term,John Mayer is an idiot and his music bites,he sounds too grainy for my taste!
"And you can be 100% not racist and date within your own race. Maybe he's not attracted to black women. So what? You can't help what you're attracted to. Maybe the cultural difference between him and the black women he's met have been too vast. Who knows? It's his choice who he sleeps with. If he said he didn't like redheads or tall women or girls with piercings no one would have cared."
You are obviously an imbicile Deanna. I don't know who John Mayer nor do I care what he does. The reason why people are pissed is not the fact he dates only white women, but he used racial slurs that made him look racist. You are correct though. You can be 100% non-racist and date within your own race, but he did not appear that way according to the interview. He should of said I don't date black women. No one cares if his dick has a Nazi symbol or that he has a N-pass. That is over the line and stupid. So do you understand the difference now? I am also surprised that Playboy would have that piece of shit in an interview. I am tired of white people saying "blacks use the N-word too." That means that white people are trying to excuse themselves from the history of hate in this country. Its funny how they don't want look into that past but wish the country was ran like it was in the 1950's.
OHHH GET THE HELL AWAY
HE IS A RACIST CUNT AND HE IS UGLY TOO